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The main directions of sex education (part 1)

1. Help in the child's awareness of his gender.

Everything is extremely banal here - it is enough to provide a child with toys based on gender: cars for a boy, dolls for a girl. And the society (the children's collective) will let him understand what requirements are imposed on his gender, which will help the child to realize his gender identity, unless, of course, there is an innate discrepancy. But this is no longer a matter of upbringing.

Sometimes parents, without thinking about the consequences, raised the girl as a boy out of their own interests (they wanted a boy or a tragedy happened to the boy). Sometimes, among mothers raising children without a father, the boy adopts only female stereotypes of behavior and thinking, which also leads to an ambiguous awareness of his gender. Such "vagueness" can develop a homosexual tendency in children who are healthy from birth, and prevent them from creating a normal family.

2. Assistance in obtaining the necessary knowledge for the child.

The child should be provided with age-appropriate information about the difference between the sexes and the genitals so that the deception of the parents would not be revealed in the future and this topic would not arouse unhealthy interest. And most importantly, do not punish children for their interest in their genitals (even infants are punished for accidental touching) and for "sexual games". By instilling in a child the concept of "filthiness" and "sinfulness" of the genitals and their secretions, you can ruin his future intimate life, not to mention the deviations found in the practice of psychoanalysts and sex therapists.

Having received a simple and accessible answer to their "tricky" questions from parents who do not blush at the same time, the child will be satisfied and direct his curiosity to other areas of knowledge.

3. An example of an attitude towards the opposite sex.

Parents unintentionally, "without a second thought," instill in children their own stereotypes of behavior when communicating with members of the opposite sex. Moreover, boys copy their father, and girls copy their mother. Children adopt not only "tail wagging" and "not missing every skirt," but also consumer attitudes towards people of the opposite sex. That is, a child learns from childhood (he is sure that this is the right attitude) to see in others only their "consumer value" for themselves. "Oh, what a woman, I wish I had one" to use and then get carried away by another.

4. Conscious parenting, not "spontaneous" parenting.

The prevention of mistakes on the "intimate front" in adulthood is proper sexual education in childhood and self-education skills from adolescence. But education is by no means limited to moral reading and intimidation with undesirable consequences. Parents should, by their example of harmonious family relationships (tenderness and mutual respect) and respectful attitude towards others, educate children in the right patterns of behavior and thinking.

An important factor in proper education is the instilling of freedom and responsibility for one's actions. This is especially important in sex education, as a teenager finds himself in "sexual situations" without parents, and he himself needs to make the right choice. No one will make a decision for him in a difficult moment. Therefore, a teenager who knows how to make decisions on his own and has even a little knowledge is much more likely than others not to get involved in an unpleasant story. Those who were brought up in a tight-knit environment, having felt freedom, but not accustomed to responsibility for their actions, easily fall under bad influence and make wrong decisions that negatively affect their future lives. The same can happen with teenagers, whose upbringing is "left to chance." Le bookmaker 1xBet propose également des paris sur les sports électroniques, un secteur en pleine expansion. En utilisant le code promo 1xbet d'inscription, les joueurs peuvent placer des paris sur Dota 2, CS:GO, League of Legends et d'autres compétitions majeures avec les fonds bonus reçus. Les coefficients sur l'esport sont souvent plus élevés que sur les sports traditionnels, car les résultats sont plus difficiles à prévoir. Les tournois de cybersport se déroulent tout au long de l'année, offrant de nombreuses opportunités d'utiliser les bonus.